The opposite of being a victim is not simply opting out of abuse; it is instead, to be abusive.
Given the choice between being the out-of-control victim, or the in-control abuser, some of these people grow up to prefer the role of the abuser.
Understanding Abuse People have difficulty understanding the motives of people who are involved in abuse.
They are familiar with and fully understand the terror of being the helpless victim from their own childhood experience.Mairee umar 16 sal kee thee aur main aik aam see larkee thee uswaqt bhee aur ab bhee.Color bhee saf naheen thaa aur na hee jism main koee khas kashis thee. Dar asal ham sab ghar walay khubsoorat naheen thaay choonkeh ammeen abboo dono hee mamoolee shakal kay thaay iswajah say main aur mairy teenoo baray bhaiee bhee bus yoon hee say thay.What makes Tony's character so interesting to watch is that he is aware of his tendency towards narcissistic sociopathy and struggles against it at times with varying rates of success.Main school say ghar aie aur sakht garmee kee wajah say mainay socha hasbe mamool main ghar jaka foran naha loon aur aram karloon.Barhay bhaiee Nasir (main unko baray bhaiee kehtee hoon), 40 sal kay engineer thaay, doosray barhay bhaiee Nadir (main unko bhaya kehtee hoon), 35 sal kay aur teesray bhaiee Tahir (main unko bhaiee kehtee hoon), 20 sal kay thaay aur sab bhaiee study kay elawa abboo kee factory jokeh Hyderabad main Fathe chok kay qareeb thee main bhee masroof rahthay thaay. Mairay to moonh say cheekh nikal gaee keyonkeh samnay maira teesra bhaie Tahir nanga khara huwa thaa aur iskay geelay badan say lag raha thaa keh wooh naha kar farigh huwa thaa. Mainay donon hathon ko apnay chehray par rakhleya keh usko daikh na sakoon laiken wooh to mujhay daikh raha thaa.