" I always struggle to find an answer to that question, partly because I don't know what people are asking. Kinda was looking forward to a "low key"ish weekend to get some writing done. I think people are really looking for specific examples to all the "fluff" I give them about community, brotherhood, negotiations, and sex. Him: I have a way of making the simple act of laying there on the table become increasingly uncomfortable and painful over time. No reason I can't have you over for you to stew for a few hours. And I get cold pretty easily..I prefer it to be a bit warmer Him: OK. There's no escaping the pain part, but it will come from different sources. I think I've been in some situations like that before...turns me off...there's definitely a motivation there for me. I have a HUGE fetish for gags/being gagged/silenced/muffled so of course the ballgag sticks out to me..nakedness is humiliating to the sub, particularly if the dom is clothed..hood because it means the sub can't see what's coming next...it's a very objectifying position. I was planning on having a quiet night in tonight since I'm likely out tomorrow night. And how do you tend to react to temperature when you're completely naked? I wouldn't say anything more than anything else.
Of course, the most famous and well-respected unit in the SEALs is SEAL Team Six. Exhibition and humiliation are other ones...idea of being kept hogtied and gagged, naked, on the floor while a dom (or a few guys) ignore me and/or watch TV or the game or whatever is kind of hot...total objectification..again, only if I can reach the headspace. I've been tying guys up and getting tied up since I was 17. I also feel like I can size up a "good" dom when I see one. Watersports is a prime example (ew gross urine *puke*) but if I feel submissive enough....all changes. Use my body to please yourself...me a horny moaning mess... Me: I trimmed it shorter to be more accommodating for tape and gags... Almost a shame to hide it under a hood, but sometimes such sacrifices must be made. Will do...was there anything from the list I should bring with?